misery adores me.

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richwhitelesbian: i dont go on skype anymore. chat with me by screaming as loud as you can into the...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:37:35 +0100

richwhitelesbian:

i dont go on skype anymore. chat with me by screaming as loud as you can into the night sky. i will be listening

marzipanandminutiae: angelicrying: relijion: A naked Spanish...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:37:28 +0100

marzipanandminutiae:

angelicrying:

relijion:

A naked Spanish men throws flower petals at the picture of the Birth of Venus by Botticelli

mood

this is the most Renaissance thing

iscarlgrimesbackfromthedeadyet: is carl grimes back from the dead yet?day 121: no

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:37:16 +0100

iscarlgrimesbackfromthedeadyet:

is carl grimes back from the dead yet?
day 121: no

zvepabonde: Concept: It’s early in the morning, we have nothing planned for the day. We decide to...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:37:06 +0100

zvepabonde:

Concept: It’s early in the morning, we have nothing planned for the day. We decide to stay in the warm bed and fall back asleep together.

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Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:36:40 +0100

chasing-tomorrow: 🏳️🏳️

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:35:43 +0100

chasing-tomorrow:

🏳️🏳️

woundedtoaster:I’m not a person I’m a stack of bad decisions in a trench coat

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 22:25:34 +0100

woundedtoaster:

I’m not a person I’m a stack of bad decisions in a trench coat

trueka:tiger girl 🐯🌺

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 22:25:07 +0100

trueka:

tiger girl 🐯🌺

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spooke:The night is here, it’s time to go Let’s run away, no one...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 22:22:57 +0100

spooke:

The night is here, it’s time to go
Let’s run away, no one will know

davidsvlogs: if you don’t take a picture in front of little...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 16:48:46 +0100

davidsvlogs:

if you don’t take a picture in front of little octopus’s door did you actually go to the gulch?

ellenripleys: You’re the best gay boyfriend a girl could...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 16:39:33 +0100

ellenripleys:

You’re the best gay boyfriend a girl could have.
Alex Strangelove (2018) dir. Craig Johnson

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owldork1998: sheabutterbitch: evil-faery: sheabutterbitch: A long time ago I took a course on the...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 16:38:17 +0100

owldork1998:

sheabutterbitch:

evil-faery:

sheabutterbitch:

A long time ago I took a course on the sociology of marriage and my professor said “With compromise, you both lose. As a couple, you must collaborate on the best possible outcome.” Ever since, I never prioritize compromise in a relationship, only collaboration.

this seems like a great concept and all but. what does it actually mean?

Compromise is typically thought of as a 50/50 split amongst partner’s needs. They’re both left partially unsatisfied, but this dissatisfaction is deemed acceptable because it is ‘equal.’ However, with additional effort, many problems may be solved through collaboration; keywords: additional effort.

In collaborating, one may try to make the conflict more complex in order to expand the possible positive outcomes. This requires trust in both parties, empathy, and consideration for one another’s needs.

The objective should shift from getting what you want and ‘keeping things quiet’ to making sure your partner feels heard and considered (as they should do with you). Essentially, you must trust that your partner has your happiness in mind, and you must have theirs, instead of fighting for your own best interest.

For further explanation, Google “compromise vs collaboration.”

And with this I have learned what i always thought of as compromise was in fact collaboration

gilasaurus: friend: wow you’re such a kind person! me:

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 13:58:20 +0100

gilasaurus:

friend: wow you’re such a kind person!

me:

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